Reflecting on 2010...

Well now that Christmas has come and gone, it's once again time to prepare to bring in another new year!  For some this may be the beginning of some new resolution or regime.  For others it is merely another year to embark on.  I have never been one to make resolutions or goals initiated by this time of year.  In-fact 'New Years' has always been one of trepidation for me.  I don't know why 'change' in and of itself strikes me as troublesome but it always has.  I guess I'm the type of person that just likes things to stay the same.  I would absolutely love it if we could just slow time down..minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and years seem to just fly by way too fast!! 

 I'm sure if we were able to, even if there were a cost, it would be the hottest commodity on the market!!!  

My 2010 will always be a memorable year as this past March was my first time being on an airplane...first time going on vacation...first time in CUBA!!! :-)) Thanks to my awesome parents <3 

This past year was also filled with new things...such as a new 2006 Pontiac Torrent that my husband and I bought.  We also sold my minivan and bought a car for me to drive.

2010 marked my step-daughter, Maddy's graduation from Kindergarten to Grade 1...her Daddy and I are so proud of how far she has come...she is now learning to read and write!!! :-)

A new member was also brought into my husband's side of the family, Nathan McCarnan was born July 11th of this year!

This year my husband's Nana was Baptized and it was very special to be able to witness it!!!

  This year, I also created 'Rebecca's Reflections' not only as an outlet to sound off my thoughts, but as an attempt to become more open, honest and real about myself and what matters to me.  I hope those of you who frequent my blog feel even just a bit closer to me through my writings.

Thank you to all of my regular readers for caring enough to take the time out of your lives to read my reflections.

From my heart to yours, I wish you a Very Happy & Blessed New Year filled with plenty of memorable moments, new beginnings and inconceivable love!!!  

Making Traditions...

When we think of the word 'tradition' most of us revert back to our childhood, some long-ago ritual or routine that held a special meaning for us.  For some, they may think about times like Christmas and the festivities that their families participated in every year that made the holiday special for them.  Like picking out a real tree together and cutting it down.  For others dragging it out of the garage and setting it up (like me)...and maybe even a Christmas Eve tradition of which movies are watched...which stories are read.  Others might think about how they had taken their childhood traditions and somehow made them new for their own families.

My husband and I don't have very many 'traditions' only two that I can think of.  Every year on or around January 28th we head back to the restaurant that held our wedding reception 'El Stavros' to enjoy an anniversary meal together.  We do have one Christmas tradition and that is every year around this time we pick one evening and he will take me to one of my favorite restaurants 'Swiss Chalet' to enjoy their traditional festive special and then we grab coffee and hot chocolate and head to Scugog Rd. to see all the Christmas lights.  This is something that has become a necessary part of our Christmas routine.

Today, I am thinking about the idea of creating or making new traditions and this is something I have recently already begun to do!

Every Friday after work I come home and get ready to head down to my best friend Jessica's house.  Her husband is a truck driver that drives team with his best friend and they are on the road all week long.  So in celebration of their return every Friday her and I (mostly her)...throw together a big meal with all the trimmings.  We talk about our weeks, we laugh, we joke...this brings us together and it's something that I personally look forward to every week!

Another new tradition this year will be incorporating my step-daughter Maddy into our dinner out and drive to see Christmas lights, as I think she is now old enough to stay awake in the car long enough to enjoy them!

I am a huge fan of 'tradition'...maybe because I tend to disagree with change...or maybe it's because I am a very 'traditional' type of person.  Either way, a change of ritual or routine that makes more time for friends & family and makes our moments with them more special, is a tradition I'm willing to make!